Thanks so mush
1. VNC is OK now. At the first time I have set it to load at boot
but after the n'th attempt probably forgot it

2. SAMBA is OK as well. Problem was ownership of the directory "root:root"
instead of "yoram:yoram" changed it and it was good.
Now I'm going to the other servers (DLNA, mail?) will post here on the progress/problems
Yoram
